Wealth
7. The Essentials of a State
80 : Investigation in forming Friendships
Poem : 791
To make an untried man your friend is ruin sure;
For friendship formed unbroken must endure.
Explanation :
As those who are of a friendly nature will not forsake (a friend) after once loving (him), there is no evil so great as contracting a friendship without due inquiry.
Poem : 792
Alliance with the man you have not proved and proved again,
In length of days will give you mortal pain.
Explanation :
The friendship contracted by him who has not made repeated inquiry will in the end grieve (him) to death.
Poem : 793
Temper, descent, defects, associations free
From blame: know these, then let the man be friend to thee.
Explanation :
Make friendship (with one) after ascertaining (his) character, birth, defects and the whole of one's relations.
Poem : 794
Who, born of noble race, from guilt would shrink with shame,
Pay any price so you as friend that man may claim.
Explanation :
The friendship of one who belongs to a (good) family and is afraid of (being charged with) guilt, is worth even purchasing.
Poem : 795
Make them your chosen friend whose words repentance move,
With power prescription's path to show, while evil they reprove.
Explanation :
You should examine and secure the friendship of those who can speak so as to make you weep over a crime (before its commission) or rebuke you severely (after you have done it) and are able to teach you (the ways of) the world.
Poem : 796
Ruin itself one blessing lends;
'Tis staff that measures out one's friends.
Explanation :
Even in ruin there is some good; (for) it is a rod by which one may measure fully (the affection of one's) relations.
Poem : 797
'Tis gain to any man, the sages say,
Friendship of fools to put away.
Explanation :
It is indead a gain for one to renounce the friendship of fools.
Poem : 798
Think not the thoughts that dwarf the soul; nor take
For friends the men who friends in time of grief forsake.
Explanation :
Do not think of things that discourage your mind, nor contract friendship with those who would forsake you in adversity.
Poem : 799
Of friends deserting us on ruin's brink,
'Tis torture e'en in life's last hour to think.
Explanation :
The very thought of the friendship of those who have deserted one at the approach of adversity will burn one's mind at the time of death.
Poem : 800
Cling to the friendship of the spotless one's; whate'er you pay.
Renounce alliance with the men of evil way.
Explanation :
Continue to enjoy the friendship of the pure; (but) renounce even with a gift, the friendship of those who do not agree (with the world).